People On Twitter Are Sharing The Red Flags They Ignored In Their Relationships

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It’s probably the new year hormones kicking in, reminding us all to leave toxicity behind and move towards a cleaner 2021. 

People on Twitter are now sharing all the red flags they ignored while they were in their past relationships, after one Twitter user brought it up.

what’s the biggest red flag you ever ignored? i’ll start. i dated a guy who drank vodka milks. not white russians. vodka with ice and whole milk. that’s on me.

— obj (@objsucks) December 27, 2020

Here’s some tweets that revealed the red flags one should never put up with ever again. 

Dated a guy who didn’t know how to use a dishwasher/ let his mother do all of his laundry at the age of 20

— Natalie (STILL at home) (@natcmau) December 28, 2020

When asked what he wanted to do for a career by my mom, he said "i think i want to go into law enforcement" after my mom asked what interested him in that he said "because i like the feeling of power"

— Kenzie (@Kenziealaine) December 28, 2020

on my bday a guy cried all day about the state of the world. i got rid of my entire bday plans to take care of him indoors until it got dark. for dinner, he chose what we ate and then he asked to be alone for a few hours so i went to the pool by myself for a night swim and cried

— yung plath (@potatogina) December 28, 2020

man told me when he saw animals crossing the street he would speed up and try to hit it. this includes cats

— stupid (@maddiesharwell) December 28, 2020

at 27 years old, his biggest accomplishment was that he won a local rock, paper, scissors tournament.

— b♡ (@brianne_maryy) December 28, 2020

He broke up with me on my birthday while we were celebrating with his friends because he didn't like any of mine. When I asked him why he said his "little demon friend" was making him do bad things because it didn't like me because I was Cuban.

— Ahn-jee🦊 (@anggsays) December 29, 2020

Biggest red flag (there were too many): when his family used to walk into the house yelling: "is the Puerto Rican here? must be because it smells like rice n beans in here"

I'm still speechless and it was 10 years ago.

— xoxo, gossip girl (@LifeofCelly_) December 28, 2020

On our first date, after I ordered my meal, he told the server that I would be having it without the cheese and sour cream.

— Justine (@jayee_aitch) December 28, 2020

He tried convincing me that I needed to lose weight & dress "hotter" & that he was more attractive than me (this one's funny because I wasn't even overweight or anything but he was). He would stare at EVERY woman that walked by

— Alma 🐇 (@Almaddddd) December 29, 2020

I dated a guy for almost a year whose fridge was broken the entire time we were together. He just couldn't be bothered to get it fixed.

If someone doesn't even value keeping food in their house, they're not gonna value you.

— Pamela Clark (@pameladclark) December 29, 2020

We had been talking for two months and was about to fly to visit him when I realized he had only been calling me babe the whole time because he didn’t know my name at all and wasn’t even close when he guessed

— versace (@stewpidhead) December 28, 2020

Phew… that’s a weirdly interesting thread. Remember guys, a red flag is a red flag no matter what. There’s no point in giving them time and hoping they would change. If you can’t put up with someone’s behaviour, it’s best not to imagine your future with them. May 2021 bring better intentions and memories to all of us! 

By: Piravina Ragunathan