A viral TikTok trend where parents record and share their children’s moments—especially during distress or punishment—is raising concerns among experts. While some see these videos as harmless or humorous, professionals warn they can have lasting consequences on teens’ mental health and parent-child relationships.
The internet never forgets. Even deleted videos can resurface, affecting a teen’s future opportunities and mental well-being.
“What you post now could come back later—through employers, schools, or peers,” says Melissa Legere, LMFT, co-founder of California Behavioral Health. “Teens exposed online without their choice may struggle with privacy and personal boundaries.”
Filming children during emotional meltdowns or discipline moments can break trust and cause long-term emotional distress.
“These situations require connection, not exposure,” says Sloane Previdi, LMSW, MFT. “Recording these moments can damage a child’s confidence and set a harmful precedent.”
Some parents believe public shaming teaches a lesson, but experts disagree.
“There are no benefits to recording a teen’s vulnerable moments,” says Alex Huffmaster, LMSW. “It can increase distress, damage trust, and lead to lasting resentment.”
Teens need boundaries to develop self-respect and a sense of security.
“Posting without consent removes their control over their image and invites cyberbullying,” says Joshua Sprung, LCSW. “Respecting their privacy reinforces their self-worth.”
If you’ve shared a video that upset your teen, acknowledge their feelings and apologize.
“A sincere apology and assurance it won’t happen again can help rebuild trust,” says Huffmaster. “Have open conversations about digital boundaries to ensure they feel heard and respected.”
Before hitting record, ask: Is this helping my child—or harming them? Privacy and trust are key to a healthy parent-teen relationship.
Source: SheKnows
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